How can a woman be both interested and repulsed by ? Do they want nice guys or to be used for ?

All women are different what is mostly the same about a majority of women is that they want to feel like they are in control of the thing they want to know that if the relationship is all about that they are the one that says that it is going to be that way. And if by chance they want a meaningful relationship then they want to know that they are in control of that too. Just in case no one ever told you let me be the first WOMEN ARE COMPLICATED!!!!!